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The most important thing in learning any language is to master spoken language. This is necessary in order to be able to start any conversation in foreign language, and also not to get confused in various conversational situations. And here English polite phrases and words will help us. After all, our treatment of the interlocutor must be courteous in order to make a favorable impression on him.

Expressing politeness and respect in English speech

Expressing politeness, courtesy and respect in English language very important. Certain phrases will help us start a conversation, say hello, express refusal or agreement, regret or joy, ask for help, apologize, say goodbye, wish good luck in English.

Expressions of politeness in English, as in any other language, are usually used when meeting and leaving, when starting a telephone conversation and when ending it. It is necessary to be careful and differentiate between communication with a peer and with a person older than you, with a friend and with a stranger, since you cannot say to an elderly person “ Hello! Hi, Hello!", But " Hello! How do you do, Good day!" Also, when saying goodbye to an elderly person, we do not say “ Bye, See you soon. Bye", But " Goodbye. Good bye».

So, here are the basic expressions of polite greeting and farewell in English. These expressions will help you say hello, start a conversation, and at the end of it say goodbye to your interlocutor:

• Good morning! - Good morning!
• Good day/evening! — Good afternoon/evening!
• Nice to meet you! - Glad to meet you
• Hello! Hi! - Hello!
• How are you today? - How are you today? How are you doing?
• Glad to see you! - Glad to see you!
• Welcome! - Welcome!

• Good bye! - Goodbye!
• Good night! - Good night!
• Have a nice day! - Have a nice day!
• See you! - See you!
• See you soon! - See you soon!
• See you later! - See you later!
• Bye-bye! - Bye!

Expressions that will help when meeting people

These politeness phrases in English are intended for introduction, with their help you can introduce yourself, say your name, introduce your friend, colleague, etc.

• What is your name? - What is your name? My name is... - My name is...
• Nice to meet you! - Glad to see you!
• Nice to meet you, too. - I'm glad to see you too
• Let me introduce my friend, my colleague... - Let me introduce my friend, colleague...
• This is my friend... - This is my friend...

How to politely thank and respond to gratitude?

Gratitude is also an expression of respect in any language in the world. As you understand, these polite expressions convey gratitude, as well as what you should respond if you are thanked:

• Thank you! - Thank you. Thank you
• Thank you very much! - Thank you very much
• Thank you ever so much! - Thanks a lot
• Thanks a lot! - Thank you very much
• Be welcome. - Please. Please contact again
• You are welcome. - Please
• It's my pleasure. - With pleasure
• Not at all. - My pleasure.

Here you should pay attention to the word “ Please" This word in English is not a response to gratitude, although it is translated as “Please.” It is used when you want to make a request.

For example:

• Please help me! - Please help me!
• Please give me your pencil. - Please give me your pencil.

How to ask for forgiveness in English?

These polite expressions will help you apologize and ask for forgiveness or express regret in a given situation:

• Pardon! - Sorry, sorry
• Sorry! - Sorry
• I am sorry! - I'm really sorry.

But one should not confuse the expression “ Sorry!" And " Excuse me!" The phrase “Excuse me!” used when you want to ask about something, clarify something, etc.
For example:

• Sorry, I can’t come to you. - Excuse me, I can come to you.
• Excuse me, where is the post office. - Excuse me, where is the post office?

English speech structures for politeness

If you need to ask or ask for help

• Can I ask you? -Can I ask you?
• Could you help me? - Could you please help me?
• May I ask you for a help? -Can I ask you for help?
• Can I help you? - Can I help you?
• Could you do me a favor? -Would you do me a favor?
• Please! - Please!
• What can I do for you? - How can I help you?

What's happened?!

Expressions of politeness that help us ask questions about what happened. They reflect our emotions of surprise, bewilderment, and surprise about the situation that happened:

• What's the matter? - What's happened?
• What's up/ going on? - What's the matter / What's going on?
• What’s the trouble/happening? - What's the problem/What's going on?

Polite phrases of reassurance and encouragement

Such phrases and speech structures will be useful to you to express politeness if you want to encourage, reassure, reassure someone, etc.

• Don't take it to heart. - Take it easy
• Take it easy - Don’t worry, take it easy
• Never mind - Don't worry
• Forget it - Forget it, don’t pay attention.

Phrases of good wishes

Such expressions of politeness serve to wish you a good day, a pleasant holiday, a good weekend, etc. You can also give a compliment to your interlocutor on this or that occasion:

• Have a nice day! - Have a good day!
• Have a good vacation! - Have a nice holiday (vacation) to you!
• Have a nice holiday! - Happy holiday!
• Good luck! - Good luck!
• I wish you a good week! - I wish you a good week!
• You are very beautiful today! -You are very beautiful today!
• You look great! - You look beautiful!
• This dress fits you very well! - This dress suits you very well!

There are many more similar polite phrases in the English language. We looked at the most basic and most universal designs that are used everywhere. It is very important to pronounce these phrases kindly, with a smile, and in a friendly voice. And then the interlocutor will definitely respond to your request or question. We wish you good luck!

When speaking English, you often need to resort to requests. They can be different: we ask for a serious favor, a trivial favor, most often the requests are small and we do not expect them to be refused (“Could you please turn the music down?”) Today we will look at how to ask permission in English, ask for help and even make an offer!

How to attract attention and call a person in English

Before you ask a stranger for something, you need to get his attention. The easiest way:

• Excuse me!- Sorry! – Suitable for any situation.
• Sir! (sir) - when addressing a stranger.
• Ma'am(ma'am, ma'am - short for madam) - when addressing an unfamiliar woman.
• Miss(miss) - when addressing an unfamiliar young woman.

Request-order

When we ask our interlocutor for something, we say it in the form of an incentive sentence. Its main element (sometimes the only one) is. However, in itself, without politeness formulas, an incentive sentence sounds like an order, a command, and not a request:

Pass me some butter. - Pass me some butter.

Don't tell my parents about it. - Don't tell my parents about this.

Stand up. - Stand up.

Wake your cat up. - Wake up your cat.

Request in the form of a soft order

To turn an order into a request, however, not a very soft one, it is enough to add the word please(“please”) at the beginning or end of a sentence.

Please, pass me some butter. - Please pass me some oil.

Please, don't tell my parents. – Please don't tell my parents.

Stand up please. - Stand up please.

Wake your cat up please. – Wake up your cat, please.

This type of request cannot be called soft or delicate; in a certain context, it may sound like an order.

Polite requests in English with COULD YOU, WOULD YOU, CAN YOU and the difference between them

If you want to ask politely, add one of the politeness formulas to your sentence:

• Could you please?
• Would you+ incentive offer + please?
• Can you+ incentive offer + please?

The part that is designated as an “incentive sentence” begins with (without the particle to). Let me remind you that in affirmative form such a verb looks the same as it is presented in the dictionary ( initial form):

• help - to help
• tell - to speak

IN negative form particle is added not:

• not help - not to help
• not tell - not to speak

Note: in all versions, the word please can be placed after “you”, for example: “Could you help me, please?”

We’ll return to the differences between these three formulas a little later, first let’s look at examples with “could you”. Here could you translates as “could you…”, the word please may be omitted in Russian translation if it is not appropriate. The sentence becomes interrogative and is pronounced with a questioning intonation.

Could you please, pass me some butter? – Could you pass me some oil?

Could you don't tell my parents about it, please? – Could you please not tell my parents about this?

Could you stand up please. - Could you stand up, please?

Could you wake your cat up, please. – Could you wake up your cat?

Pay attention to the example with negation (about parents). Negation is expressed using not; no “don’t” needs to be added here:

• Right: Could you please don't do that?
• Wrong: Could you please don't do that?

Now let's go back to the difference between could you, would you, can you.

Instead of could you can be used would you or can you. For example:

Would will you pass me some butter, please?

Can do you stand up, please?

These options can be translated into Russian in the same way as those with could you:“Could you…” But there is a difference between them, albeit a small one. It can be explained simply, or it can be complicated.

Without going into details, then

• Could you, would you- the formula for a polite request, there is no difference in meaning or degree of politeness between them.
• Can you- the formula for a slightly less polite request. Roughly speaking, this is the same as in Russian you would say “Can you pass me the butter?” instead of “Could you pass me the butter?”

If you dig a little deeper, then:

• Saying “ Can you pass me some butter, please?”, we ask the interlocutor if he has physical ability pass the oil. It is clear that we are not asking just like that, but thereby expressing a request.
• Essence of the question " Could you pass me some butter, please?” the same, but the question itself is asked in a slightly softer, indirect form. Again, compare the analogues in Russian: “Can you pass the oil?” - “Could you pass the oil?”
• Question " Would you pass me some butter, please?” refers not to the possibility, but to the desire of the interlocutor to pass on the oil. Something like: “Would you pass me the butter, please?”

On practice these differences are not significant in small requests: serve the oil, open the window, that is, in cases where the request is a pure formality, it is guaranteed not to be refused. The degree of politeness/impoliteness will be much more affected by intonation.

The difference in questions with would you And could you is more noticeable when we are talking not about a small request, but about consent, desire do something. For example, if a guy wants to invite a girl to the cinema, he is more likely to say: “Would you go to cinema with me?” , and not “Could you go to the cinema with me?”, because in the first case he inquires about her desire (“Would you like to go to the cinema with me?”), consent, and in the second - about the possibility (“Do not could you go to the cinema with me?”).

By the way, when you need to ask for consent in a more confident, decisive form, it is better to use a question with rather than its would form. Classic example: “Will you marry me?” - "Will you marry me?"

Polite requests in English with “Do you mind”

Expression “Do (would) you mind + “ used as a polite request to do something.

Do you mind opening the window? - Could you open the window?

Would you mind not smoking? - Could you please stop smoking?

Note: there is a similar phrase “Do (would) you mind if I...” - it is used not as a request to do something, but to obtain permission, we will return to it a little later.

Ask for a favor or help

You can ask for a favor, usually larger than giving a chair, or for help using the following expressions:

• Could you do me a favor?– Could you do me a favor?

You can ask this question to a friend, a colleague, or a stranger. Example:

- Excuse me, could you do me a favour?- Can you help me?

– Sure. - Certainly can.

– Can you watch my stuff for me for a few minutes? I'll be right back. -Can you look after my things? I'll be right back.

The core of the phrase is “do me a favour”, it can also be used in a slightly different form, not necessarily strictly as “Could you do me a favour?”. Examples:

Dear, do me a favor and turn the TV off, please. - Honey, do me a favor, turn off the TV, please.

Can you do me a favor and shut up, please? “Could you do me a favor and shut up, please?”

• Can you help me out (with something)?– Can you help me out?

Please help me with something, help me out. This is usually how they address friends and acquaintances.

Can you help me out tomorrow? I need to move my stuff but my car is too small for that. – Can you help me out tomorrow? I need to move my junk and my car is too small for that.

“Can you help me out WITH” will mean “to help out, to help with something”:

Can you help me out with my homework? – Can you help me with my homework?

• Can you give me a hand (with something)?- Can you help me?

Usually this means some kind of physical help right now.

Can you give me a hand? I can't lift this box. - Can you help me? I can't lift this box.

Or the same thing, but in other words:

Can you give me a hand with this box? – Can you help me with this box?

“help me out” can be used in the same meaning:

Can you help me out with this box?

• I'd like- I would like

Requests from "I'd like" usually addressed to service workers and maintenance personnel. For example, this expression is usually used to place an order.

Note: after “would like” it is used with the particle to.

Hi, I would like to order a pizza. - Hello, I would like to order pizza.

I'd like to have a taxi. – I would like to order a taxi.

I'd like(to have) a hamburger, please. - I would like (to order) a hamburger.

How to ask permission in English?

Requests include not only incentive offers, the essence of which is that we ask the interlocutor to do something, but also questions the purpose of which is to obtain permission. In other words, asking permission is also a request.

There are also several colloquial formulas for this case:

• Can I\May I– “Can I...” or “Can I...”

For example:

May I ask you a question? - Can I ask you a question?

Can I help you? - Can I help you?

Strictly speaking, in such a question it means physical possibility, and - permission, but in ordinary everyday speech these distinctions are so erased that there is absolutely no difference in how to ask permission, “Can I go?” and “May I go?” they do not differ in meaning. However, the option with may more appropriate in a strict formal setting.

For example, the event host makes an announcement:

Ladies and gentlemen, may I have your attention, please? – Ladies and gentlemen, I ask for your attention (literally: “may I have your attention”).

• Can I have\May I have- "Can I…"

Particular attention should be paid to the following request: Can I have… (May I have). It is used when we want to receive something, we ask to give us something:

Can I have a candy, please? – Can I have some candy, please?

Excuse me may I have a cup of water? - Excuse me, can I have a cup of water?

May I have your name and address, please? – May I know your name and address, please?

• Is it ok if I...?- “It’s okay if I...”

The expressions “Is it ok if I...” or “Is it all right if I...” are an analogue of our “Nothing if I... (do something).” This is how we politely ask for permission. For example:

Is it ok if I take your bike? - Is it okay if I take your bike?

Is it all right if I come to the party with my friend? – Is it okay if I come to the party with a friend?

• Do (would) you mind if...?- “Do you mind if...”

“Do you mind if” is a polite way to ask permission. Literally: “Do you mind if,” but in Russian we say “Do you mind?” or “Do you mind?”

Do you mind if I open the window? – No, of course not! – Do you mind if I open the window? - No, of course I don’t mind.

Do you mind if I smoke? – No problem. – Do you mind if I smoke? - No problem.

Instead of do can be used would, you get a softer request:

Would you mind if I open the window? – Would you mind if I open the window?

A possible option: “Don’t you mind if,” that is, literally “You don’t mind if.” There is no difference between them, it’s just that the second one is a little more delicate, the speaker seems to admit that the interlocutor may well object. There is a little confusion with the answers with this option.

For example:

Don't you mind if I open the window? – Do you mind if I open the window?

In theory, if a person doesn’t mind, he will say: “Yes,” meaning “yes, I don’t mind” (yes, I don’t mind). But he can also say “no”, meaning “no, I don’t mind” - this is not entirely grammatically correct, but such an answer is possible. Although in practice people very rarely answer the question “Do you mind if I…” with a sharp “Yes, I am against it!” The answer will most likely be in a more polite form, for example: “Oh, sorry but I have a cold” (sorry, but I have a cold).

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Various responses to gratitude and apology in English.

How will it be in English please?

Hello! This article is dedicated to a very useful and popular word that we often use in conversation. to the word "Please". Let's see how you can say please in English in response to people's gratitude. After all, in Russia we often use words such as: please, no thanks, no need to thank, contact us at any time, always welcome, etc. You will find a list of similar phrases in English below.

If you make a request.

Well, first of all, if you turn to someone with a request or for help, then in the English language there is only one “magic” word. And I'm sure you know him. Word - "please" Please.

Could you please do me a favor?

(Please, could you do me a favor?)

Could you please tell me where can I find Ann?

(Please can you tell me where I can find Anna?)

Could you please help me?

(Please, could you help me?)

In response to gratitude and apology.

If someone thanks you, then, as noted above, in Russia we often say: please, no problem, etc. Let's see what phrases English-speaking people usually use in their speech:

1) The first and most popular phrase is you are welcome Please.

- Thank you for it!

(Thank you for that!)

- You're welcome!

(Please!)

2) The second good phrase is not at all you're welcome. This phrase is also used in response to apologies. For example:

- It’s so kind of you! Thank you very much!

(You are so kind! Thank you very much!)

(My pleasure)

— Oh I’m sorry, my fault!

(Sorry, my fault!

3) The third option, which also means “nothing, no thanks” or is used to respond to an apology - don't mention it .

- I’m sorry!

(I'm sorry!)

— Don’t mention it. It's ok.

(Do not worry, everything is fine)

- Thank you for your help.

(Thank you for your help)

— Don’t mention it.

(No big deal, you're welcome)

4) Next cool phrase - it's a pleasure I’m always happy, I’m only happy, etc.

- Thank you my friend!

(Thanks buddy!)

- It’s a pleasure!

(Always happy!)

5) If you want to say “no problem”, then there is a simple phrase - no problem.

-Thanks for your coming.

(Thanks for coming)

(No problem)

6) And finally, the last good response to gratitude is anytime always welcome, contact us at any time.

- Thank you so much!

(Thanks a lot)

(Contact us any time)

OK it's all over Now. These were the main options to say “You’re welcome, you’re welcome, I’m always glad, it’s no big deal” in response to gratitude or apology in English. I hope they expand your

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